There is nothing wrong with being gay. It's like being Swedish. A little different but in no important way.
But there's plenty wrong with the way a lot of people are gay. They're gay in ways that don't make them happy. How to Be Gay in the 21st Century has the nerve to suggest that maybe they're doing gay wrong. And that there are ways to do it right. Many readers will disagree and hurl this book into a corner. But others will find that in this new century there are new ways to do everything, and being gay is among those things.
This book is going to leave women aside. That is another subject for another kind of writer. This book is for gay men. And let's face it, many men are gay in ways that don't work for them in achieving the results they want. I believe that part of the problem is how they go about it. And part of it is in the results they want.
This book will try to rectify the situation. At least it will make some suggestions as to how one can go be gay and make it work for your happiness, rather than against it. Of course there is always the possibility that your unhappiness is your happiness, but you will have to mull that over with your analyst.
How to Be Gay in the 21st Century offers pointed advice on the following topics:
1. Get Out of the Closet
2. Don't Get Married To A Woman
3. Should You Tell Your Parents?
4. Don't Be a Bitch
5. Did you Really Have Sex?
6. Love
7. Pedophilia—Forget it!
8. How to Dress
9. Drag—Is It a Good Idea?
10. Beauty, Beauty, Beauty
11. Blonds
11. On Getting Older
12. Your Job
13. Money
14. Your Home
15. Your Dreams
16. Friendship
17. Breaking Up Is Hard To Do
18. To Bar or Not to Bar
19. On–line
20. The View Ahead
